It's gotta get discouraging running around a crazy town of "dead end" auditioning. How about using LOA (Law Of Attraction) methods with "viral blogging" with a pre-optimized blog. The blog can also be "monetized" so you can earn some money at the same time. (Give up the waitressing gig)
Sorry about the waaaaay late response. (I don't get on here much)
Blogging creates "searchable" content, that is available to producers, directors, agents, managers etc that may be searching for what you have to offer. The money does not come from DIRECT blogging. It comes later, once you become known. liked and trusted.
Also Vlogging (VIDEO blogging), which may be even a better platform for you to showcase your skills talents and abilities.